How the Collective Victim Shadow Archetype Affects Our Finances

I can see how my history of oppression as a South African has led to a collective victim shadow in my maternal family and how this victim shadow has affected our relationship with money:

  • We feel powerless with money - we never feel like we can master money. It feels like financial events just happen to us. My maternal family has this belief that money is something mystical that only the lucky few can ever master it.

  • We're always operating from a sense of blame - it's never our fault, our financial mishaps are witchcraft or someone’s fault. I spent years blaming my childhood for my debt. I’d convince myself that my relationship with money would’ve been great if I had a better childhood or if I'd been loved better as a child.

How to Overcome the Fear of Financial Failure

The brain hates uncertainty, it sees uncertainty as dangerous; the clearer you are about what you're trying to create or achieve, the more confident you'll be when it comes to taking constant action.

Uncertainty is part of life and there’s no way to know the future with complete certainty. There are too many variables.

We assume the way to avoid financial failure is to know all the variables and possibilities, but what we need isn’t knowledge of the future or instant success, what we need is courage to keep going in the face of impossible odds.

When we see our worst fears and face them, they can no longer control us.