All tagged tracing ancestral trauma
I work with clients from all walks of life and a few of the a white Women on these streets have been my private clients and they know how I work and have had amazing breakthroughs from my work.
I have spent years explaining why Black Women need safe spaces and why my group retreats are the way they are.
Time does NOT heal wounds and it certainly doesn't heal trauma.
In fact with time trauma can be passed down from generation to generation and start to shape the family and the way people relate to each other in families.
One day we need to unpack what South Africa is doing to young Black people in the workplace and how this is adding to money trauma.
There's this dangerous narrative that tells us that we should be grateful for whatever little bit we earn because others don't have jobs.
Soon, I will do a whole webinar unpacking how the trauma of colonization, apartheid and slavery affects our allostatic load and how this impacts our health, nervous system and finances.
A while back I was chatting with a friend and we were talking about how much fun adulting is.
I honestly didn't enjoy my childhood and teens because I was constantly dealing with abuse, but adulting has been and continues to be awesome so far:
One of the things I keep learning on my journey is to allow myself not to know and to have compassion with my learning process.
The truth is a lot of things that are normal to most people were hard for me, especially when it comes to money and business.