All tagged financial failure
A while back, in the middle of a full body workout with my personal trainer, I felt all this fear and sadness in my body (especially my womb) and stopped the session to scream into pillows, went back to the workout, paused, did some womb breathwork and then fire breathing.
Two fears that we focus on in the #BankAccountChallenge are:
🔴 The fear of depending on others for money and our needs
🔴 The fear of people seeing that we don't have money
I grew up in a family where I saw my mom be told that she thought she was better than everyone for having money.
I saw my mom literally meltdown, sabotage and give all her money to my uncle because she wanted him to like her and for him to take care of us.
One of the fears we work on in the Fall In Love With Your Bank Account Challenge is the fear of running out of money and the shame we feel around our finances.
Trauma lives in the body and impacts the nervous system and changes the neural synapses of the brain, which can be seen on brain scans. This means that the way we think and process actually changes due to trauma, especially prolonged trauma or childhood trauma.
The brain hates uncertainty, it sees uncertainty as dangerous; the clearer you are about what you're trying to create or achieve, the more confident you'll be when it comes to taking constant action.
Uncertainty is part of life and there’s no way to know the future with complete certainty. There are too many variables.
We assume the way to avoid financial failure is to know all the variables and possibilities, but what we need isn’t knowledge of the future or instant success, what we need is courage to keep going in the face of impossible odds.
When we see our worst fears and face them, they can no longer control us.
